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CONDON’S CORNER 


On Father’s Day: Memories of a Wonderful Father


[Published June 15, 2025, by The Daily Progress, the daily newspaper of Charlottesville, Virginia, and The News Virginian, the daily newspaper of Waynesboro, Virginia.]


© Marlene A. Condon 2025 All Rights Reserved


Carolina Wrens are superb parents, feeding and protecting their chicks both in the nest and for a few weeks after they leave.  

 

For as long as I can remember, I’ve had an interest in the natural world. My earliest memories of my maternal grandparents’ farm include a Red Fox in the driveway one evening when my family arrived, and the plethora of wildflowers along the road as we walked to a wild blueberry patch to pick some of these fruits for breakfast. 

 

By the time I was six years old and had finished first grade, my family moved from the big city to a small town of only about 10,000 people. It was the perfect place for me to grow up; farms and wild places were nearby so I was able to indulge my love of nature.

 

With no streetlights along our road, I was able to view the night sky in all its glory, unobscured by artificial lighting. My father would keep me company as I taught myself the constellations and made my first “scientific” notes for further reference.

 

My fascination with the stars and galaxies meant I needed a small telescope to further my pursuits, and I also took an avid interest in the new (at that time) efforts by mankind to reach outer space and eventually the Moon. My father played a key role in assisting my learning in these areas.

 

I recall the day he brought home a book on astronomy for me. I had read everything in our school library by the third grade and keenly wanted to know more. Thus, I was absolutely thrilled to get that book, and it has traveled with me to every place I have lived and resides now in my office book case.

 

It’s a fond, physical reminder of how well my father paid attention to my interests and assisted me to learn—despite the fact that he himself had not even been able to finish high school. My understanding is that he needed to quit school to help support his many siblings. And yet, despite the fact my dad never earned a high school diploma, he very much encouraged my own learning, for which I can’t praise him enough.

 

In addition to buying me my first book on astronomy, he also never missed the chance to purchase the numerous space stamps put out by the Post Office to commemorate American astronauts traveling into space. I thoroughly appreciated all of his efforts on my behalf to assist me in learning about our universe.

 

Additionally, my father was well aware of my love of nature. Thus, whenever he needed to visit his dentist an hour or so away from home, he would bring me with him to enjoy the ride through the countryside. I loved viewing the woods we travelled by and getting the opportunity to see wildlife.

 

My father passed away long ago, but I’ll never forget the wonderful opportunities he gave me to further my learning of the natural world. In fact, I can’t help but think of him every year as I keep tabs upon my Carolina Wrens. The male of this species very much reminds me of my father, as he’s always there to assist with the chicks. In this sense, my father was the ideal dad.

 

In spring, a Carolina Wren finds a female with which he will remain steadfast and true until he or she dies. He shows her the local nesting sites and even builds an almost complete nest in each location. The female gets to pick her favorite spot and completes the nest the male started there.

 

She lays one egg per day, which both wrens keep tabs on until the female lays the final one. She immediately begins to incubate all of them on that same day. She’ll lay five eggs for the first nesting of the season, then four eggs, and finally three eggs for the final nesting.

 

The female leaves the eggs occasionally to feed herself, although the male also brings her food as she keeps the eggs warm. After the eggs hatch, both wrens feed the chicks, taking good care of them until they are ready to fly the coop.

 

The chicks usually all leave on the same day, but sometime a chick isn’t ready and remains overnight in the nest. After being fed a little bit the next morning, it’s then enticed to leave as the parents call it while also tending to the young chicks that’ve already fledged.

 

The parents are kept quite busy feeding their family, and every evening they herd the chicks into one spot where they can sleep together. The parents leave to sleep elsewhere, and return at dawn to feed their young and get them back out into the world. Those babies have a lot to learn so there’s no time to waste.

 

Like the male Carolina Wren, my dad was the perfect parent.


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CONDON’S CORNER   On Father’s Day: Memories of a Wonderful Father [Published June 15 , 2025,  by  The Daily Progress ,   the daily newspaper...